I went with to a pre-natal visit last week. I heard Son's heartbeat! mat couldn't make it but I recorded it for him :)
Birth Mother introduced me as the adoptive mother to the nurse and the doctor. :)
She also gave me a gift! All of the free samples and coupons she's been getting because she's pregnant and a very cute and soft Winnie the Pooh receiving blanket that she had picked out at First Choice Clinic (a pro-life organization to help pregnant women and mothers in need with education and basic needs).
I got some answers from the doctor and the visit went well. Then we went out to lunch and got to talk a bit more. It was great!
She has another appointment in a couple weeks. I'm invited again!
So exciting :)