I truly feel that these babies are the children God wants us to have.
Sure, it would have been easier if we were fertile and able to have our own. Sure, it would have been nice if one of our infertility treatments had worked and we already had live children (one chemical pregnancy and one IVF worked and we were blessed with twins who were miscarried). Sure it'd be nice if everything worked out the way we wanted it to... but what about what God wants? Doesn't His will trump our desires every time?
Already in this pregnancy (12w5d) I feel a closeness to Him who made us all, including the miracle wiggling away in my womb. I have doubts, I'm human- I'm scared to death for our baby! But I know that God will handle it. I pray that He lets Wiggler be carried to term, but I also know that His will will be done, no matter what happens.
The trials of infertility have brought us to this beautiful place. This God given place with a healthy pregnancy with a child God wants us to have. Embryo adoption is a miracle!
We are so blessed! :)